Feel free from the anxiety about your child’s future…

By Rrajesh Kothhari

School education, the most valuable and inevitable part of every child’s life. School grade education is primary base of any child’s career, if the base is strong then following levels of career building will be much stronger. In ancient time, people sent their child at teacher’s home (Ashram) to obtain education. This represents the importance of education. If I am talking about complexity of education system, it is noteworthy to say that day by day education is becoming more and more tough, highly competitive and complex. Studies are always highly important, but there are so many extra activities such as, art, culture, craft, computer, music, indoor & outdoor sports and many more. As a result, school students have experienced burden of studies. Students of school going child and their parents are sailing in the same boat i.e. educational stress. Currently, in this highly competitive education era, every parent wants their child to be superior in every segment. Sometimes, parents force their child for study and extra-curricular activities without knowing whether their children have interest in it or not.

When a child finishes his/her tertiary education and moves toward the Graduation-University education, the most crucial decision is to choose his/her career. It is observed that parents either take decision of their child’s career just based on current trend or their own profession or field, which creates more vicious situation. The child can not perform well and eventually, he/she feels pressurised dues to their studies and examination. Eventually, he/she struggles for success. Sometime, situation becomes so fatal that many a times they get handcuffed by a very serious depression.

Do you have any idea, why any child could not perform well even after giving best training and education? I believe many parents have the same question. As an expert graphologists and from my experience, I strongly believe that in this type of situation, the main issue is not just sources of education or efforts of the parents but, the prime reason is, the child may not have such inherent skills, hidden talents which are appropriate to the field. A child can be best performer if he or she has interest and inherent skills in the field. Let me explain with an example, a child is highly physically active and if parents force him/her to do art then, he/she could not be best but if let him/her allow to do any sports activity then the result will be unbeatable. During the primary level of studies, parents should know the inherent skills and hidden talents of their child. Unfortunately, there are quite a few parents who know the tendency, abilities, personality type, strengths and weaknesses of their child. If you are not one of them, then don’t worry. I have an easy and reliable solution for you.

As you already read about graphology in my previous articles, just your child’s handwriting reveals everything about your child like, child’s nature, thinking pattern and inherent tendencies, and more.  It is very simple process because, it does not involve any kind of questioning of the child or putting the child through some kind of psychological tests which may make the child feel uncomfortable. Children are encouraged to do some writing at a comfortable place in their natural surroundings which allows for the graphologist to catch the natural tendencies of them.  Based on the handwriting an expert graphologist understands a child’s personality, strengths and inclinations and suggest a career path that will resonate well with a child’s personality. Parents can ensure that a career option is not imposed on a child and he/she chooses a path that is most suitable according to his/her personality. A child involves in the field which he/she like the most then it will enhance the overall growth, performance in studies and development. Essentially, handwriting analysis is proved to be worthwhile for career counselling according to child’s hidden aptitude, creativity, intelligence and more. Hence, I request students who are choosing their career and their parents that please don’t take any blind decision of career selection. And so it is truly said that:

“NEVER JUMP INTO RIVER WITHOUT KNOWING IT’S DEPTH”

You may be feeling very surprised to know that, Handwriting analysis uncovers child’s problems like, sexual child abuse, depression, drug abuse, social and emotional problems, hostility, and delinquency traits. An expert graphologist can identify the basic problem so, you as a parent can take remedial steps in time.

The another tool, grapho-therapy, is proved as an useful tool for every parents. Handwriting analysis identifies worrisome trends in the children’s personalities and then Grapho-therapy able to help children and their parents to work together to overcome these negativities, weaknesses which act as a barrier in path of success.  Grapho-therapy helps to remove the pressure of studies and build the positive attitude. It can raise your child’s grades, confidence and self-esteem, improve positive skills, concentration and memory. Furthermore, it is also helpful for shy, aggressive, argumentative and slow learner child. At Younger age it is easy to mould the personality of a child, like a potter can easily mould the clay in the required shape in a very initial stage. But, once it is made he can not change its shape even if he wants. Hence, it is very easy to work on negativity of a child in the tender age. After a certain age, it is very tough to make any change in personality. The writing exercise suggested by expert grapho-therapist will definitely improve the personality of children and help them to climb the ladder of success.

(The views expressed by the writer are personal.)

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