By Rrajesh Kothhari
In ethical theories of Indian philosophy and history, human has four age-based phases in entire life, like Bhramacharya (student), Grihastha (householder), Vanapastha (Retired) and Sannyasa (renunciate). At some extent still, the system is existing and people also believe in it. Each of the phases has equal importance in human life. I am going to talk about the Grihastha-householder phase. Each of us has our own criteria, in other words, an image in our mind for our future soulmate.
In Indian tradition, arrange marriages are more popular due to the cultural and religious beliefs. In this type of marriage, partners are selected on the basis of various criteria. The lifestyle of majority of the people is busy and hectic. Eventually, they socialize less in their extended families and on the other hand they are more social globally. Ultimately, the search of perfect life partner is more tough. Hence, Marriage bureaus, dating website and clubs are gaining prominence in the modern day. They work on the profiles of men and women, then find perfect partners considering many factors and use many techniques to find the most suitable match. But, it is more crucial to understand and match each other’s thought process, emotions, feelings, personality, understanding and nature, which cannot be revealed by the birth chart. So, the question is how long does it take to understand your partner irrespective of whether you are dating, loving, befriending, or even living with one another? Does it take weeks, months or even years? It is not easy to understand a person we are tying knot with in single meetings, especially in traditional Indian arranged marriage. Moreover, grapho-therapy helps to enhance the personality of any person by removing the negative traits and adding positive traits, eventually it increase chances of getting matching partner.
Any relationship will be strong and supportive only when a person can understand his or her soulmate. When the matter comes to a long-term commitment, it is best to check for the compatibility, to know about the personality traits of prospective partner and also how harmonious is this relationship is going to be. There are several tools used for compatibility check in astrology that is by matching sun sign or moon sign based on birth chart or any other psychological test. But it has some flaws and sometimes it fails. We have seen that most of the couples or their families go through match making by birth chart, and amongst them many couples face unhealthy relationship, separation or divorce. This is not just only about arranged marriage but love-marriages also have the same story. We all have experienced that comparatively; young generation is facing more disturbed and conflicted marriage life. Nowadays, we all have heard that the divorce and separation ratio is increasing gradually. The most important thing is that, the foundation of a strong relationship relies on the synchronisation of the nature of all those who constitute it.
As an expert graphologist, Graphology could be the most effective tool to understand the personality of person and easy to predict the compatibility of a couple. Through Handwriting analysis, an individual receives a report about his/her own and life partner’s personality and how they interact with each other. In other words, check compatibility with each other. Based on present traits and strokes in handwriting, you get details about which type of personality is more compatible for life long relationship. Furthermore, you have a quick and sure idea of discovering what someone else is like, expectations, the best way to approach, and this can enable you to understand his or her personality. Isn’t it right, to use graphology as a medium to find out more about soul mate or loving partner before taking the final decision?
If any one already has a partner or is involved in a relationship and facing any kind of conflict, instead of boosting ego, it is better late than never. Graphology can find and confirm present sources of conflict and proceed to resolve them for each other’s benefit. Graphology is not limited to just checking how compatible a relationship would be, but it can also give you insight of an existing relationship. Graphology is a trusted and recommended service which helps in carrying out a personality analysis in a confidential and non-intrusive manner. A graphologist is able to make objective inferences as to the traits and motivations that make up the personality of an individual by studying the nuances of his or her handwriting. It will help you to identify those aspects of your character which act as barriers in your relationships with others. Graphology would be able to highlight the opportunities for improvement within you and your relationship without being judgmental. It helps to understand our own shortcomings by the means of a personality analysis as reflected by the handwriting. Even, Grapho-therapy removes the negative traits of couple, helps to calm their mind, improves understanding, builds a strong bond amongst them, helps them to get closer and cherish their love life. The social and emotional intelligence is the single most important factor of success in all aspects of life whether it is personal or professional. With the support of Graphology and Grapho-therapy, understand yourself and others through personality analysis so that you can improve your interpersonal skills and help you in improving your bond with your life partner.
(The views expressed by the writer are personal.)
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