CREATING YOUR OWN REALITY……..

By: Kavita karki

A small yet important step everyday leads to development in you and can make a better you. Create a world of reality that signifies the person who you are as the person you want to be.

Look into the mirror, stop. Don’t think about what you don’t like rather ask yourself why you dislike them.

Who has told you that you are wrong or incompetent? What was their objective of calling you so! Was someone hoping to make you his submissive?  People have various motives of pointing the faults in you but your plight depends on what you choose to believe about yourself and what you do with it. But never be so blind and firm in accepting the true perception of reality. You don’t have to accept what others have said about you. The reality or perception that others have created for you can only be vanished by creating your own reality.

Creating your own reality is empowering yourself and disempowering you critics. Now when you have established your own reality the measure of success depends entirely on you.

When you create your own reality, then you can put your energy out into the society to make it as you want it to be. An established personality with your own reality can bring about a change in the society. An apt example for establishing the above fact is here:  the law of physics still applies and gravity still pulls us to the ground. But if the Wright Brothers were so you and me and had not decided to create their own reality none of us would have ever flown anywhere.

You just need to imagine who you want to be, how you want to be treated and live as if the reality already exists.

Carry yourself with pride. Your appearance must be charismatic with the aura. And you can smile and greet people as you move about your day. You are telling the world that Hey look!  There is much for me to be proud of and I’m extremely confident of whatever I have then the world will except your reality and you will be greeted with respect by whosoever you encounter in your day.

You must engage yourself in what you want to do every day, to create a reality of your own that too filled with joy and pleasures of life. What else is happy living and high earning called!

If you have aspirations of professional success, the top people in your field have business cards, why shouldn’t you? If you aspire to be a successful journalist, you might get access to VIP events for reporting if you give your card to their organisers. Congrats… you just got yourself a big story and a new feather in the cap of your reality.

Your experiences, lessons learnt, struggles and facts of life can create your own reality of success and empowerment and can drive your story towards an amazing ‘’ happily ever after’’.

Can you envision what you would look like at your absolute best? If you can imagine it you can envision it, and if you can envision it, you can create it and that will lead to you becoming it. Makeover but make sure of a look that you are comfortable in and you can stay in everyday. From here you can have the reality of you at your best.

Make sure you are what you want to be like. It’s always better to live freely and die with no regrets. Put yourself in an environment where you are around people who you want to be like. If you want to get into media, start working in and around with media persons. Before you know it, you’ll be among your peers. You and your inspiration will be at the same level of success. With this you have created a reality of your own that you had always longed for.